Fostering a Safe and Happy Relationship Between Your New Baby and Your Pets

Cassi Colvett
Dec 19, 2023
2 min read

Today, we're diving into a heartwarming chapter of life: welcoming your fur babies to the arrival of your newest family member. When it comes to merging your four-legged friends with your tiny human, it's all about setting the stage for a beautiful friendship. I’ve got some tried-and-true advice to help make the transition of introducing your new baby to your pets as smooth as a purring cat or a wagging tail.

Introducing Scents

Before the big homecoming, exchange scents between your pet and the baby. Bring home a blanket or an item of clothing from the hospital that has your baby's scent and let your pets sniff it. Similarly, let your baby get acquainted with the scent of your pet by introducing a blanket or item with their smell. This helps them familiarize themselves with each other’s scents from the get-go.

Preventing Jealousy between a New Baby and Pets

pitbull and kitten on bed with backs turned looking out window

Pets can be sensitive souls. Ensure they have their safe spaces even before the baby arrives. Give cats tall places like a cat tree or shelves to retreat to, and give dogs a calm, quiet place where they can settle. Gradually accustom them to baby noises and equipment. Maintain their routines as much as possible and offer plenty of attention. Establishing positive associations between the pet and the baby's presence is key.

Positive Associations through Training

For both cats and dogs, start simple training exercises. Associate positive experiences with the baby's presence by reinforcing calm behavior. Reinforce with high-value treats, play, and praise, even for just simply noticing the baby. Gradually increase exposure to the baby while maintaining a relaxed atmosphere. For instance, feed your pets treats or engage them in fun activities while they're in your child's vicinity.

Welcoming Toddlers into the Mix

As your baby grows into a curious toddler, it's crucial to maintain supervision during interactions. Teach your toddler gentle pet interactions and the importance of respecting your pet's boundaries. Make sure to advocate for your pet and not allow any rough tugging or petting. Engage in fun activities together, like supervised play sessions, to foster a positive relationship. If your toddler isn't quite ready to be gentle near your pet, use baby gates and barriers to keep either from having a negative experience.

Harmonizing the Household

Consistency is key. Keep up with pet routines and ensure they get enough exercise and attention. Encourage positive interactions between pets and children through supervised playtime and gentle, positive reinforcement. Always supervise interactions between pets and small children to ensure safety for both. By creating positive associations, establishing boundaries, and practicing patience, your furry companions and tiny humans will soon form a beautiful bond.